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Lessons from a Lost Balloon: Growth, Safety, and Kindness

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A blue balloon is inflated and resting in a bathtub, with a towel nearby.

In this story about small town stranger appreciation, a mom learns lessons while her little kid grows up a little more, making kind decisions about safety, cats, and personal capabilities. Let’s nurture our relationships and read on. To begin, why is this balloon in the bathtub?

Short answer: to protect our cat (Rolo, who can open every door except a shower door) from GI distress caused by eating the string.

Long answer: My 4-year old son is building resilience, self-discipline, confidence, and communication skills. Today, he acquired a balloon from a Habitat for Humanity kiosk at the local Berthoud farmer’s market (which makes up for its well-known lack of vegetables by being located at the new splash pad park, bringing multiple sourdough purveyors, and hosting the beloved Wildfire Arts kids art table. Today there were even dancing local ladies and a massive drum circle. And it’s really not the town’s fault about the veggies. We have a notoriously short growing season, etc etc).

My kids love balloons. Yes, I know they’re dangerous… a family I know had a child fall from a large mylar one at his own party and get seriously injured. In our family we aren’t allowed to put them up to our mouths, and so on. Mine play with them a few times a year under supervision…. STRONG supervision. This is partly because we have a large cat who loves to eat that curly, delicious, devilish shreddable balloon string. He gets very sick from eating it, and he just can’t stop. If it’s in the house, he’s gonna find it and have it for his own.

So we got a balloon anyway. They were gleeful, knowing this was rare. The kids ran to the playground, clutching their strings. Enter some sort of spinning playground equipment and a spill. No scrapes, no blood, no bump… but snap! My son’s balloon was gone like that, soaring to the sky as if we’d meant to poison nature. I’m so sorry, birds. I really should have known.

Well, there was another family observing. I’m not going to say they caused the disaster, but they sure fixed it. (In truth, a park dad had been giving all the kids massive pushes on this spinning piece of park equipment, which led to riotous laughter and a moment for me to call my own father to check on him after some difficult health issues early this month). I saw the spill, the cut string, the loss all play out in slow motion and was ready when my 4 year old sprinted to me screaming as I slammed my finger down on the phone fast to spare my dad the screams in his phone ear. Are you hurt? “No.” Are you ok? “NO!”

That darn balloon. I went into triage mode. The kids were given some options from which to pick (stay here and play a little but we have to use nature friendly voices again; taste a pickle and calm down with mom; go home right away, etc). Kid opted for a pickle and kid 2 went on spinning, her balloon much more securely attached to her hat band. It’s a pink cowgirl hat and she is NOT taking that thing off. But her 4-year old brother was SO SAD.

You know those moments, parents? You know when you COULD go get another (whatever spilled-melted-dropped-broken-ruined) thing, but it’s a long way away, and isn’t there a lesson here crammed in there that you don’t want to miss and don’t want your kid to miss? (And what about the voice from your past reminding you that when you were a kid and that lady next to you at Disney broke your balloon with her 1980’s cigarette and she didn’t apologize and your parents did not buy you a new one and how will he learn a lesson if you don’t inflict on him the pain you felt when you were 6… just me? To be fair, I didn’t remember it. My dad reminded me about it later as I recounted the blue balloon story.)

“OK but mom, it was not his fault!” my brain argued. “He fell and the string broke and he. is. SO. SAD!”

Yet I stuck to my proverbial guns. I wasn’t mean, I was soft and sympathetic, walking with my crying kid back to the car as he suffered loudly and his sister bounced along with her balloon. And guess what happened before we left the parking lot? If you live in Berthoud maybe you already guessed.

The stranger family re-appeared. One of the kids was clutching a lollipop- Oh please don’t let my kids notice that, I prayed. Too late, my daughter instantly said the quiet part out loud. But that didn’t matter, because… the stranger-family-dad (sorry kind sir, this is what my children have dubbed you) was holding out a balloon. “He took a pretty big spill back there,” he said apologetically. “We decided we didn’t want him to have to leave without a balloon.”

Glory be! Is this the small town feeling creeping up my arms, a mix of chill bumps and gratefulness and humanity and embarrassment (my toddler was just about to leave without one and darn it I was going to make sure he was ok with that)?

We humbly and gratefully said big thank yous. My little guy’s eyes were dazzling blue worlds of gratitude staring up at this family, accepting his balloon. He clutched the string like I clutch his hand at Trail Ridge Road overlooks while we stare over the edge.

There were so many lessons today. First, the amazement of my son: “I didn’t realize a stranger would be so kind to another stranger!” Then, the detailed discussion of situations when it is ok, versus not ok, to take things from strangers. We discussed the role of my presence, of the dad asking me “can I give this to him?”, and other nuanced questions only a 4- and 6-year-old can generate. We rode home happy.

And now it was nap time. Here’s where his character development really comes into the story. “Mom,” he said sleepily, “I really, really love playing with the balloon. So I think we better work together to find a safe place that is not inside my room. Especially for Rolo. Can you help?”

Yes, son. I got your back on this one. He’s asleep now, napping after all the excitement, while the cat lies in wait outside the bathtub and I take in the wonder that is 4-year-olds growing up.

Oh… and I love other families as well. I provide mentoring to families, therapists and teams that gives them the tools to transcend trauma. See my courses at www.cuspemergenceuniversity.com, join a group with me, book an appointment, or just email me any time.

Understanding Values: The Connection to Context and Action

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Why are values meaningless without contextual understanding, and committed action? And what’s the connection to Homer Simpson?

The question is found in both behavioral and permaculture applications. If you caught my talk at Stone Soup ABA 2024 sponsored by Lake Ridge Community Support Services, you heard a permaculture example (e.g., the seemingly value-based statement “if you value native plants, root out all invasive species”). This loosely parallels the concept of “just ignore junk behavior and reinforce what you DO want” in behavior analysis.

Is it always best to rip out non-native plants? For behaviorists, is it always appropriate to ignore and let “junk behavior” wither and die?

Maybe part of the problem is our misuse of the concept of “always”.

Now, I was fortunate to grow up with a witty, smart as a whip, biologist mom. She cared about the earth (more than my teen feelings of embarrassment, which I outgrew thanks to her bold example) and called out high school boys who littered right in front of her. She took us to Earth Day events even when we were one of the only families there (and, consequently, I WON the Earth Day Fishing Tournament, having been the ONLY entrant in my class). She wore the same Big Bend hat for decades, was a master gardener and a proud member of our local Native Plants Society, and championed native plants.

But she evolved with knowledge, like a true scientist does, and she would value the principles of permaculture that I’m learning about now.

Do we need to remove this thing, or understand it first?

For example, now we ask questions before we pull things out. Why is this plant here? Why does it grow, when almost nothing else is growing? What special features does it have that makes it thrive in a barren space of edges where the beautiful native plants we wish were here… AREN’T?

We appreciate the many interlocking functions of the thing we observe before us. What is it doing for the soil? Is it taking up space and time in an important way, holding the soil in place where it would have eroded due to habitat loss faced by the native plants leaving? Is it providing habitat for insects, birds, shade loving plants or others who need it?

If I say my value involves loving native plants but I mindlessly remove non-natives without considering THEIR roles too, I risk failing both natives and non-natives.

OK… what’s that got to do with Homer Simpson? Well, look. I want you all to be able to use the buffers. And one exercise I provide to teams or families new to them, is a little fun challenge: see how many you can use today. Why, go ahead and think about a single HOUR. How many can you use? For instance, Homer is… eating a sandwich (nutrition(ish) buffer)… while in bed… (sleep buffer?) with Marge (relationship buffer)… maybe this is helping his mental health and stress relief. Maybe they’re going to get in some exercise later this evening.

But here’s the thing. You need values, AND you need inter-relatedness among the buffers. We care about intentional connections, not simply combinations.

Homer’s always missed something. He loves Marge, but he often doesn’t think about her experience at all. He’s getting some buffers in, sure, but you know what happens almost immediately in this episode?

“Marge, I’d like to be alone with the sandwich for a moment.”

When we’re self-serving with our buffers, or mindlessly try to “get them all in” (or put them on someone else’s schedule when they haven’t provided their assent (see the BACB Ethics Code and its descriptions of it or learn more here) or even their INPUT), we’re not really embodying that value of fostering interconnected buffers.

Something I recommend is picking a buffer that guides your others… and anchoring committed actions to the OTHER buffers that reflect back that first one. (Interested in this? Work with or care about teens? Check out The Thriving Adolescent, for concrete suggestions and examples around selecting a value and identifying committed actions that reflect those.) For those of us in relationships, maybe it’s the idea that most of all, you want to value and protect the nurturing relationship. Then the other buffers can be designed around actions that reflect this. I know when I do this, I eat well because I’m making loving healthy meals for and with all my family members and we’re eating together. So, my nourishment is enmeshed with theirs and I’m no longer skipping meals, angrily lashing out because I’m hungry or protein deficient, or angry about having to come up with yet another meal idea. I could write a paragraph about each buffer and how it can all relate back to the nurturing relationship I want to foster with my close family members.

When Junk Isn’t Necessarily Junk

What does this have to do with junk behavior? Well, just like non-native plants wouldn’t be there if natives were all thriving. When the environment fosters the conditions which give rise to a healthy balance between plants, people, animals, insects, and the land, it works. And you can often think of many features of so-called “junk” that make it useful for someone else!

When something is rooted out… to make space for development, or there’s a huge loss of a predator, or an introduction of a new animal, etc… other things wander in. Before you trash them, notice them. Maybe they’re playing a role you need to notice, watch a while, understand.

When we change behavior with a plan, a transition, a death, whatever intentional or unintentional changes occur… other things wander in. So often we look only at how we can yank it OUT, without considering why it’s there, what purpose it’s serving. In the terms of buffers, is it temporarily helping someone to tolerate distress? To eat when there’s nothing else? To get rest or escape from their aversive environment? To take up space in their repertoire because there is a lack of meaningful things for them to do, see, say, hear, etc?

Someone wouldn’t use a whole lot of “junk behavior” if their needs were being met, they had tons of skills to communicate effectively, they had meaningful things to do all day and loving listeners to help them spend their time with purpose. (Look at this beautiful way to meet needs WITH “junk” instead of wasting it, and buying yet more building materials!)

The Next Step

Anyway, I hope you enjoy thinking about the buffers today and remembering it’s up to you to do all three: identify your values, understand your context, and design meaningful, committed actions that get you closer to those values. One step closer is enough today. Maybe your step is picking the buffer that most aligns with your core values and operationalizing that one right now! 😊

Ready to take Today’s Next Step? Pick ONE buffer below and operationalize it. That means, jot down what it would look like for you to engage in things that reflect your values in this area. What would you wake up and do, and do throughout the day, if your actions in this buffer area really reflected your values?

Need more info? Try taking the free (and jargon-free!) course on cuspemergenceuniversity.com, or dive a little deeper if you’re a behavior analyst by taking one of the others there.

I love you more than biscuits

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Another article in the trauma-informed series by Dr. Teresa Camille Kolu, Ph.D., BCBA-D

In relationships we do rituals.

“BLECH!” Startled, I looked down at my sweet, expressive daughter with a true disgust face. Everybody laughed. I was kinda mortified but I laughed too. The woman at MeOhMyCoffeeAndPie (you HAVE to go) had just answered her question with “it’s sauteed onion” when my kid asked “what’s the scone flavor today?”

Ok, I guess she wasn’t expecting that.

I was too caught up noticing this awesome tiny, framed quote by the display case. As a young reader I LOVED Larry McMurtry, see, who wrote Lonesome Dove and a whole lot more. He and I both went to UNT (decades apart, of course) where he gave us a wonderful author meet and greet (early 90s for me, when this kid was not even a twinkle). The coffee and pie shop had quite appropriately chosen to frame this gem of a quote: “She made great biscuits, but her behavior was TERRIBLE”.

My daughter and I were out doing a ritual Saturday thing. My mom used to sing “Come Saturday Morning” with me (we had the sheet music, so it was right up there with “Country Roads” and “The City of New Orleans” in my book). And sometimes we would spend time just us, and I would look at her hands and sing this song in my head. Saturday mornings, for a couple precious hours, are time when my daughter doesn’t have to share me with her little brother, and she pays me back by asking me questions I can’t answer. It’s at this time I learn that even 5 year olds wonder things about God and the universe, have nightmares, they can have crushes, they have fears, they might still want to hold my hand.

I LOVE biscuits but I love her even more. I love her more than her behavior, even that sort of behavior that makes you want to fire the babysitter just so you’ll never have to greet that face that saw the terrible behavior you thought your kid would never do in public and after all, you are a behavior analyst! (Do I think it’s easier because I’m a behavior analyst, my new friend asked recently? Heck no. I personally think it’s harder. But I do think being a parent has made me a better behavior analyst.)

So in relationships we do rituals, like setting up meaningful goodbyes when we leave the room, or when rhythms change and we won’t be spending as much time together anymore. If not, we leave devastation.

When I watch animals grieving each other’s deaths… especially horses and dogs… I notice how fully present they are for the goodbye.

And I am always grieved to consider the implication: such a meaningless slog of goodbyes without reason, or participation, we inflect this on clients when caseloads shift; when a therapist moves; when a client with certain behaviors moves into Hall B, so we just HAVE to abruptly move Client A into Hall D, so they won’t antagonize each other and never mind Client A will never again see her best friend client, or even the janitor—who was like a mother to her and had been there for 12 of the client’s 15 years in this mental facility again.

We often have to make hard decisions, but we should ask questions (“what really hurt your feelings this past week? Today?”) because in relationships we apologize when we’re wrong.

When we realize we hurt others, we shift so that we won’t keep doing the hurtful thing.

My mom remembered the pain of being hurried as a child. I knew that, and I forgot it. I remembered it again this month when I was going through an exercise I was making for a new workshop we will offer at cuspemergenceuniversity.com. The exercise has us grownups go through questions that reveal the triggers for us – the things in our everyday situations that make us more likely to react swiftly (often in a hurtful way) to the others around us. And I realized two things: being hurried doesn’t feel good to children, and hurrying children doesn’t feel good to adults. So what do we do? This week, maybe you will notice a ritual that is always done with urgency, and think, how does this feel? What would this feel like if I slowed down? Now, the harder part: What would it take for me to build in space around this… ten extra minutes before it, so that we don’t have to experience this, every single time, in hurried mode? I tried this, and my children really love it, although I won’t hear about it from them. Their lingering hugs (mama, don’t let go first!) and their wonder as we have time to look around the yard for a new flower before we buckle our seatbelts… the absence of urgent reminders and exasperated sighs… perhaps even a reduction in tense moments when I’m about to lose it and yell. These changes are rewarding enough for me to keep doing this. Because I love them more than biscuits.

Yes, rapport is often transactional. Although it was by design at first, it doesn’t always have to be that way. I talk about this just a little bit in my buffers article, in the relationship section. And in the trauma sensitivity course we talk a little about how to be more sensitive to what folks go through (including your staff) so that YOU can be a little less harsh, a little more supportive, around things you didn’t even realize were hurting the other person.

In relationships, we apologize; we give freely; we do things uncontingently (yes, I know you won’t be able to look that up, and there’s a reason- we talk about it more on instagram and it bears more attention); and we are generous with things the person really needs, like time, kind words, and those little rituals that they consider special. Have you ever worked with a therapist the client really adored? Or a professor beloved by their students? I remember two. The professor is loved and really loves. She gives generously of her wisdom, time, and appreciation for students. (You wanted to ace her class and reflect what you admired in her, even as she whispered the things that made you more of yourself, more creative and passionate and able to grow confidently in the direction of your dreams.) The other person I remember is a therapist who had kids riding on her shoulder at recess in our mixed school for kids with developmental differences and peers. And those folks taught me that you can have instructional control when it’s time, and still have fun with the people who look up to you. Rapport IS often transactional. But the relationship doesn’t have to be.

Thanks for reading.

Oh… and I personally think, in the Longmont area, that Lucille’s has the best biscuits.

And OhMeOhMyCoffeeAndPie has the best lemon bars, if you’re wondering.

I love you more than biscuits, daughter of mine. And I love you even when your behavior is terrible.

What are some relationships between buffers and triggers?

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Another article in the TIBA series by Dr. Teresa Camille Kolu BCBA-D

In Chapter 8 of our course on Trauma Sensitivity, we cover the concept of “triggers” and what we can do about them. We cover this mostly from a responsive perspective in the course and use the following operational definition: “Triggers are historically meaningful stimulus complexes or relations between them. In their presence, behaviors or response patterns may be temporarily more likely to occur.” We continue with the big idea from Chapter 8 of that course, “One of the most supportive actions we can take is to stay mindful and do what needs doing in the moment”.

However, another huge thing we can do in helping someone through those triggering events or moments is to plan ahead. Below are some questions we ask our clients and their family members to answer, if they are interested in exploring this. Read on if you’re interested in some examples (we share a brief example of a dyad’s answers, where one member is the 5 year old kid, and the other is a parent). (Oh, and it may be helpful to check out the IPASS (find it in our RESOURCES tab)- this is a little tool we use for folks to go through their sensory environment for clues about triggers, if they need somewhere to start.)

Questions:

1.Name a person you love or a primary relationship you care deeply about.

2.Name an action that you do that shows compassion with them.

3.Name some things the person also does… that REALLY get under your skin.

4.Name an environmental situation or trigger that happens right before it is HARDEST to keep your cool.

5.List some things you start to notice when you’re feeling about to blow up/ lose your cool/ start doing actions that are inconsistent with your values to that #1 person.

6.State things you do to calm down in those moments that REALLY work or are most likely to work.

7.If you DIDN’T act to calm down and things kept getting worse, state the action(s) you would be likely to use next in the presence of that person.

Growth statement: Write your plan to prevent the triggers (3 and 4 above) from leading to actions that are inconsistent with your values (e.g., 7), by doing (6) as soon as you begin to notice things about your insides or the outside environment (5).

Ready to see this in action? Below are some parent answers. Keep in mind that neurodivergent parents often have neurodivergent children (or, looking backward, that neurodivergent children often have neurodivergent parents, whose qualities might not be appreciated until later, in the context of exploring diagnoses with their own children). Have you ever seen a mom struggling with her own misophonia exactly at the same time her child uses loud repetitive noises? Talk about triggering (for and to each other)! But stay hopeful and in the moment, because as hard as it is to be the thing in your loved one’s environment that sets them off, it’s lovely to be the person in their environment who can really understand where they’re coming from.

Parent Example: Answers to 7 questions, above

1.I love my kids.

2.I love it when I am able to use kind words and a calm voice with them.

3.Sometimes my kid makes repetitive noises, does not listen or interrupts me, or doesn’t follow instructions.

4.It is most difficult to keep my cool with my kids when I’m running late somewhere and my kid is not following instructions or is not doing something the “right” way.

5.I start to notice my face getting hot, my neck and face muscles are strained, and my breathing is shallow and fast. 

6.If I splash water on my face, relax my muscles, stop and hug my kid, and breathe deeply, it helps to calm me down in the moment.

7.If I skip that step above, I usually proceed to raise my voice and may even shout or say things I don’t mean (things that are not kind and compassionate).

Parent Growth plan: “When I’m late somewhere and it’s really noisy, it’s especially important that I start to notice when I’m using shallow breath, the noise around me is increasing, or I’m noticing everything “wrong” my kids do and nothing right they’re doing. Right then, before I talk to my kid, I need to immediately try some of my calming strategies I listed above.”

OK, now for the kid’s answers.

1.I love my mom and baby brother.

2.I love it when I am able to keep playing, share, have fun.

3.Sometimes my mom tells me to stop doing something I love or tells me how to do something better or my brother takes my stuff.

4.When mom yells or my brother takes my stuff or we have to leave my game or book, it is most difficult to keep my cool.

5.I start to notice my face getting hot, my movements are jerky, my chest hurts, and my breathing is fast. 

6.If I hug my mom, splash water on my face, stop and do some jumping jacks and then sit and breathe, it helps to calm me down in the moment.

7.If I skip that step above, I usually yell, hit my brother, or shout “NO! I WON’T!”.

Growth plan my parents can help with: When I’m being asked to stop playing or to do something that interrupts my flow, notice when I’m breathing faster and having a hard time talking. You can help by giving me a hug, doing some jumping jacks with me, and sitting with me and helping me to breathe.

At this point, we ask the parent some meaningful questions to help them make sense of what we’re noticing. And often this is uncomfortable (but becomes exciting and doable) as they first think, “oh, but won’t we be reinforcing escalation?” No, we’re turning it off.

Parents or caregivers, did you notice…

-Whether your having a hard time makes it harder for you to help your other person with THEIR hard time?

-Whether your hard time perhaps CONTRIBUTES to their hard time?

-Whether your triggers are echoed by the ones that seem to affect your kid or client? (e.g., are you teaching your other person to struggle with the same thing you struggle with, without your meaning for this to happen)?

-Whether your triggers might be easier to manage at a period of time when you (or both of you) are well fed, rested, and exercised?

Have you ever taken an on-demand workshop?

02 Thursday Mar 2023

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For me, an on-demand workshop does several things: It can be taken any time; one can take it with a group and apply exercises with other people if desired; but since it’s on-demand, an individual will benefit even if taking it solo. It should be expandable if one wants to be able to sit with a chapter for a few extra hours because we simply love the content; there will be resources to grow with and come back to if one can’t do all the exercises right NOW. I’ve been on sabbatical a while; as I return to doing interviews, conferences, talks, and podcasts (including a new one we taped recently for the Atypical Behavior Analyst, with my friend Dr. Eddie Fernandez airing later), it is nice to be able to take something on my own time, when tiny folks are asleep, and I know many parents – and folks going through school and work at the same time – are in the same boat.

So after taking an on-demand online workshop recently, we decided to present some of our own new content in an expandable workshop format instead of the typical course, including several features. Our new Trauma Sensitivity workshop includes:

  1. 30+ exercises with the videos: Because this is an on-demand workshop, we present a TON of exercises packaged with the videos. Teams or individuals can easily do a chapter a week along with exercises for a truly transformative experience in your office or supervision setting. But if they choose to take it all at once in an afternoon, that’s possible too. So it’s customizable.
  2. Scalable applications for team members, supervisors and supervisees: The new content (on leveling up the trauma sensitivity of our staff and client environments) is “scalable”, meaning we include applications for 3 different levels of staff: those in roles that are basic; intermediate; and advanced. Presenting it as a workshop meant that the team members “leading” the discussions and exercises benefit just as much as (but different from) the less advanced team members they are mentoring through it.
  3. Supervision guides and chapter handouts: These come with every chapter video and walk the student through the material, from the main ideas we presented, to definitions for any new vocabulary, exercises, lists of Ethics Code items that relate, thoughtful discussion questions, exercises, and chapter resources and articles. Every chapter comes with its own handout and supervision guide to help BACB supervisors or team leaders support our coworkers and supervisees.

The two things I personally love most about this workshop are:

  1. it addresses tough topics like moral injury with your team members and considering how this ethics area could apply to our supervisees but our clients too;
  2. and we provide resources to follow up on big ideas like this one: there are some behavioral needs that medical providers consider symptoms of trauma-related concerns. (If folks are new to integrating trauma sensitivity in their supervision and client environments, we might miss this huge opportunity to make sure we do no harm by treating behavior needs that are actually related to new abuse.)

Wondering about the content of the new workshop? Here are the chapters (each has its own video, ethics intersections, resources, thought questions, and exercises):

Chapter 1: Principles of Trauma-Sensitive Care  
Chapter 2: Interactions that could help or do harm
Chapter 3: Features of trauma-related responding  
Chapter 4: Defining trauma  
Chapter 5: Risks related to trauma  
Chapter 6: Elements of a potentially trauma-related response  
Chapter 7: Buffers
Chapter 8: Triggers (Then watch integration Scenario Video)
Chapter 9: Neurodevelopment
Chapter 10: Want to mitigate risk? Document it first
Chapter 11: Skills and Stress
Chapter 12: Healthy Collaboration  
Above: Table of chapters from Trauma Sensitivity in the Behavioral Workplace, new on-demand workshop from Cusp Emergence

Did you enjoy this article? Come back soon when we’ll cover a few more related topics including: mentorship groups for those applying trauma sensitivity principles in their supervision sessions; how to get the most out of your workshop experience by doing exercises as a group or dyad; more info on a brand new all-trauma conference coming in April hosted by the formidable Dr. Gabi Morgan; meetups in Denver May 2023; and more!

Read below for final thoughts and some links if you’re in the market for values related CEUs: Recently, when my own CEU cycle was about to turn over, I knew it was time to take a course or workshop in something I could use NOW and am passionate about… so I went searching for three things: supervision CEUs; offerings from people I admire and from folks who literally wrote the books on leveling up mentorship and supervision and working with families; and opportunities to learn about values in a deeper way that would help me level up my own practice. That led me to a couple of great courses and podcasts; one of these opportunities was a workshop with built in exercises that could be taken quickly or over the course of a few weeks and included opportunities to network with other folks. It was a really lovely experience. Included are links to a couple trainings and podcasts from respected folks who continue to inspire, below.

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-journey-of-supervision/id1501568747?i=1000485543749

https://evelyngouldphd.com/news/events/20220915-acting-on-a-value-of-self-care-on-demand/

https://www.weareconstellations.com/current-workshops

And here’s the trauma sensitivity on-demand workshop: https://www.cuspemergenceuniversity.com/courses/trauma-sensitivity

Get ready to learn about ASD and trauma

11 Monday Oct 2021

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By Dr. Camille Kolu, Ph.D., BCBA-D

Behavior analysts who treat people with autism probably know that ASD often co-occurs with trauma. But did you know that up to 50 percent or more of people with autism may have experienced trauma, that ASD itself is a risk factor for experiencing trauma, or that children with autism may be around 2.5 times more likely to experience foster care, itself another risk factor for trauma?

These findings are some of the reasons researchers (as well as research-practitioners, including those of us at Cusp Emergence) urge practitioners to adopt screening in order to support the huge group of people affected by both trauma and ASD (see Brenner, Pan and Mazefsky et al. on the need for screening, and special behavioral differences that occur in this population).

ASD and TIBA: Our newest upcoming course on CuspEmergenceUniversity.com

They are also just a few of the things you’ll learn when you take the upcoming course on CuspEmergenceUniversity on trauma and autism (coming Fall 2021). Other topics we cover include:

-client examples from both child and adult populations whose experiences include autism and trauma

-literature references helping practitioners discover more about what trauma related experiences people with autism may face

-how behaviors themselves can be risk factors for additional trauma

-behavior programming examples that may be counterindicated procedures depending on the individual needs of autistic people who faced trauma

-examples of ASD communication needs that have been particularly helpful to target when supporting this population after trauma

-behavioral cusps that can make a huge difference after trauma

-examples of worst case scenarios people face when trauma history is not taken into account for individuals with autism after trauma….

…and much more. We also cover how Cusp Emergence uses the SAFE-T model and Assessment (including our risk versus benefit tools) to be more supportive, mitigate risks unique to autism and trauma, and learn more about the whole person and their needs.

Just can’t wait for the CEU course on autism and trauma to be posted in the coming months? Tune in to The Autism Helper’s podcast. Dr. Kolu’s interview with Sasha Long, BCBA is live and we’re excited to share it with you!

25 Things I Want You to Know: Ways I use trauma to inform my practice of behavior analysis

26 Thursday Aug 2021

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This is the 21st article in a series on Trauma-Informed Behavior Analysis by Dr. Camille Kolu, BCBA-D

I often hear from educators and behavior analysts, “What do you actually do differently if your client has faced trauma, given your role as a behavior analyst?” In this bulleted series we’ll get there, but we’ll start with what I would want you to understand about myself as your client (or teammate!) who has experienced adverse experiences. Here we list 25 different things I want you to know. (As a hint, each thing we can understand about a person could be a bridge, if you choose to walk through this difficult thing to a shared place of understanding on the other side. We’ll explain in more detail in future posts, or you can check out our course library over at CuspEmergenceUniversity if you’re interested in expanding your boundary of competence). But first, if I were your client or team member – if my past involved trauma – I would want you to understand that now, with the presence of historical trauma,

I MAY:

  • have difficulties calming down when under pressure
  • have difficulties using “appropriate” behaviors even after years of programmed reinforcement for using them
  • have mental health concerns that have never been appropriately addressed because my behavior masks my needs
  • have medical problems that are going unaddressed because my providers have never asked me about my trauma history, despite it being a fact that it confers serious medical risks. (See the incomparable Nadine Burke Harris talk about her work on this, and the amazing takeaways, in her classic TED Talk– or see some of her research and outcomes on using screening tools)
  • be more likely to use certain “challenging behaviors”
  • and find it more reinforcing, even important, to use behaviors you would describe as challenging
  • use behaviors that are more resistant to change than you are used to as an instructor, therapist, parent, supervisor or friend
  • find certain interventions painful, difficult, or harmful
  • find some kinds of social interactions difficult or painful
  • have trouble controlling some of my bodily functions, but may not be able to describe to you why
  • experience “triggers” in the environment that you can’t see (but that an experienced provider could locate, document, and learn to help me explore or move with, as appropriate)
  • experience some times of the day, week, month, or year that are marked by aversive events for me that you won’t know about
  • may not be able to explain WHY this time is difficult or why I am using an “old pattern of behavior”
  • find it more difficult to perform, or to learn and remember new things than others of my age, skill level, or occupation – even if “on a good day” I can do this just fine. (By the way, have you read The Four Agreements? Do you know how important it is to take nothing personally and know that others are doing their best (and how critical it is for you to do the same)? If not go check it out.
  • use occasional behavior that is mistaken as “ADHD” or “ODD”, or more, but that is actually related to how I was mistreated
  • have been given misdiagnoses, treatments that didn’t work, or medications that made my problems worse or that interacted with each other in harmful ways that hurt my body and cognitive function
  • attempt to advocate but get ignored when I try to communicate pain, mistreatment, or a medical concern
  • be more likely to experience FUTURE trauma because of what I faced before
  • lack a reinforcing and useful repertoire (e.g., full complement of skills and things to enjoy), especially if I faced treatments that just tried to “teach me a replacement behavior” for a few challenging things I did, instead of understand and grow me as a person in the context of my own community, needs and desires for my future
  • be part of a long line of marginalized people or one of multiple generations exposed to trauma
  • have a chance to change our lineage… if you help

After all, I AM:

  • a human being with interests, feelings, and great potential for growth and joy
  • more likely to experience certain risks (I may be at greater risk of losing my educational or therapeutic setting, go through harmful discipline practices, be exposed to law enforcement interaction, for example)
  • in need of understanding, an informed supervisor and system of support, and someone who will document my challenges so we can work on them, but not emphasize them so much they ignore my strengths, needs and skills
  • capable of much more on my best day than I show on a hard day… but I am always doing “my best” at the time, given what I have been through and what I AM going through, and despite what it looks like

Taking these points as a starting place, future posts in this series explore what I NEED as a person who may have faced these things, and what I DO as a behavior analyst who cares. We’ll also share some of what I need from my supervisors or systems administrators! What would you add to this list? What are some of your action items?

Self-paced SAFE-T Assessment Training is here!

16 Tuesday Feb 2021

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It’s finally here! We have learned so much from workshop attendees, trainees and supervisees in this area over the past several years, and appreciate the attendance, feedback and support of everyone who has taken the training or used a version of the SAFE-T Assessment. Coming on Monday, the booklet and training for assessing trauma-related factors affecting our clients of behavioral services, are available ONLINE as a self-paced course. This course provides a download of the new and expanded SAFE-T Checklist booklet, which contains several tools enabling the screening and documentation of over 200 trauma-related factors, and a Risks and Needs form to help teams understand (and document) how these factors confer risks (and converge in risk factors that must be solved or mitigated to protect our clients, teams, and ourselves). The booklet contains an extensive reference section and team supportive tools as you use your new knowledge to better align your team’s skillset with the Ethics Code, and the individualized needs of behavior services clients after trauma.

Several of our behavior analytic and collaborator clients across institutions, educational facilities and private companies clients have shared that learning to assess risk factors related to trauma, and to apply this information to their teams’ FBAs and risk mitigation plans, took their skillset to the next level – essentially affording them an opportunity to acquire an important behavioral cusp for their teams.

Some new components of the booklet include:

  • An optional buffer/ resilience score to assess whether protective environmental and therapeutic components of a client’s plan are in place (to understand some ways that trauma gives rise to medical and behavioral challenges and some buffering factors that can help, please see the book or scholarly articles by Dr. Nadine Burke Harris (e.g., Oh D.L. et al. 2018), who is the Presidential Scholar for 2021’s upcoming Association for Behavior Analysis International’s conference. She will address the critical topic of breaking the intergenerational cycle of adversity, and screening for ACES (adverse childhood experiences).
  • Table of potentially contraindicated procedures (cross referenced with items and risk clusters assessed in the Risks and Needs form)
  • Information about over 50 risk clusters (groups of related risks in the 6 assessed sections of the SAFE-T Assessment)
  • Cross-reference tables showing, for each item we screen for, the location(s) in the SAFE-T Checklist
  • Infographic on components of a trauma-informed FBA
  • Brief templates for Risk Versus Benefit Analysis and Risk Mitigation Planning
  • The IPASS (Inventory of Potential Aversive Stimuli and Setting Events) tool and instructions
  • References (organized by topics) covering over 40 areas or topics of literature related to trauma (including relationships of ACES to medical problems, ACT and intellectual disability, ACT and anxiety, foster care and adoption, the relationship of abuse to pain, drug use and trauma, and much more).

Time required: The course includes about 4.5 hours of video content in 12 lessons, each followed by a brief quiz.

Price (includes 4.5 CEU course and SAFE-T Assessment booklet download): $189.99

For $20 off through the end of February, use the coupon code “SAFET20”.

To register: cusp.university

Homebound and Vulnerable: What will you do to prevent abuse and neglect?

24 Tuesday Mar 2020

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This is the 19th article in a series on Trauma-Informed Behavior Analysis by Dr. Camille Kolu, BCBA-D. Start by becoming informed; then please read to the end if you’re interested in taking steps with your organization to support therapists and teachers to continue to fulfill their roles as mandatory reporters.

Child abuse, elder abuse, domestic violence, and abuse of people with intellectual disabilities is going on all around you. It may have just become simultaneously more prevalent, invisible, and insidious.

For example, in some areas, there has been a marked decrease in calls to the hotlines that typically lead to welfare checks for vulnerable people in their homes to insure that families have resources they need, children are not being abused or neglected, and appropriate actions can be taken if they are. (See this story from Colorado reporting a drop in calls the 9th and 10th of March as schools began to close).

Across the nation, different states are reporting similar decreases in calls but also a spike in the number of serious child abuse hospitalizations and even deaths.

Reasons for this disturbing increase are numerous. Little annoyances become big ones when there is no possibility of a break and both mental health (e.g., patience) and physical (e.g., food and sleep) resources are running thin. Even a normal battle on whether your kid will eat the peanut butter sandwich becomes a crisis when you’re trying to feed several people a balanced diet with whatever dwindling foodstuff you still have in the cabinet, while money (and outside trips) become scarce.

For many families, the struggle is not only real but getting uglier by the day, by each hour the kids are home from school.

There is conflicting advice, some of it really unhelpful, yet most of it well-intentioned. (I read a recent article about how we should just give in and let kids watch endless videos during this unprecedented time; but for many children, a huge increase in access to media may be accompanied by major behavior challenges (and even injurious and aggressive behavior) when parents try to have them turn it off for meals or bed. Research shows increased screen time can cause impulsivity, hyperactivity, and inattentiveness,

all of which are even more difficult to deal with when you’re cooped up. Of course, you need solutions, and the quick fix is even more appealing right now.

And there are major barriers to resources. Some have said this crisis is leveling the playing field, but really, it’s revealing discrepancies.  

Being quarantined at home doesn’t hurt that much when there’s plenty of food, you already know how to navigate technology to work from a home office, and there is room and time to get away from housemates or family members for a little while.

Being at home with other people who normally require 7 to 9 hours of behavior support and school-provided structure, let alone meals, while you work to make ends meet—that is another story altogether.

So there are the struggles to which we can all relate, and then there is the reality of jumping into these struggles with no help, no end in sight: There is the reality of suddenly not being able to be by oneself for even a minute, and not knowing when it will end; there are children whining or crying (or hurting themselves while other things need their caregiver’s attention; there is behavior, so much behavior, that a parent doesn’t know how to handle and is made worse by a lack of structure, suddenly upended routines, and for some, the complete loss of safety figures.  At the same time, there are abusive people who are now alone with their victims for the next few weeks.

Maintaining a safe environment for a child depends on several behavioral and environmental factors. Right now, those factors are not all present. Instead, we have

-Caregiver behaviors that are really important to keep people safe, but may not be FLUENT (such as giving effective instructions to a child, creating a schedule for several people, or responding to unsafe behavior that you usually don’t have to respond to)

-Caregivers that may physically present, but not AVAILABLE (e.g., an adult who can provide continuous, adequate supervision to every single member of the household who needs it)

-The presence of new circumstances creating unsafe environments (such as having 3 children with special needs home at the same time, for hours and days on end, and without the things (therapies, bus drivers, respite workers, social outings and educational time) that typically provide structure and relief)

-The additional presence of huge stressors (the unending flow of news about the virus; the dwindling of food and resources; the loss of jobs)

-Competing, sometimes incompatible, needs (like people home from work who need quiet to make money but who also have to provide constant caregiving and supervision; or people who have intellectual and other disabilities and are without their scheduled programs, events, therapies, social opportunities)  

-Therapists and teachers who are working from home or not at all, but who normally document and relay evidence that a child or adult may be being abused, mistreated or neglected

These factors and more combine to produce

-The occasion for more abuse or neglect to occur

-Decreased opportunities for abuse to be reported

-Emotional and physical needs that may make the outcomes of a child being quiet or following directions suddenly much more important or reinforcing, whatever the cost

So, my therapist, day program provider, and educational staff friends- how will you add and document safety checks for all your clients on a reliable schedule to take the place of “having eyes on” the client in your clinic, their home, or your school or program?

There are no hard and fast answers. For instance, some behavior analysts are out of work; could they be repurposed to providing online support of families with children at home? Having eyes on the family is good, but it’s also introducing a risk that we will give advice that we don’t have an assessment to back up, or that is not fully safe to implement. And while I’d like to share ideas for behavior analysts to incorporate safety checks of your clients virtually, it’s most important for me to encourage you to reach out, right now, to your organization—and ask for your TEAM’S plan to do that. This is because different states and areas have different guidelines and requirements for you to follow depending on your local recommendations for HOW you monitor and report unsafe situations. You need to do it, but you should follow your local guidelines and state laws.

  1. Recommit to your role as a mandatory reporter for individuals with disabilities, the elderly, or children, if you are a therapist, teacher, etc.
  2. ACT as an employee: If you work for an organization, act by asking your company what their contingency plan is for all employees to fulfill this role given our emergency situation, and how you can help.
  3. ACT as an employer: If you own or lead an organization, stop right now and generate a brief plan for how you’ll support your team to fulfill their roles as mandatory reporters. Here are some ideas:
    • Write up a plan and email it out. Bonus points if you schedule an online meeting right away to disseminate it and give examples and encouragement.
    • Assign everyone a recommended frequency to make check-ins that specifically deal with the client’s physical well-being and mental health.
    • Give the team an example for what questions they can ask, and what they should avoid (if needed) to maintain everyone’s safety in the home they are looking at.
    • Tell employees to document the outcome of their checks (e.g., if they notice things that typically would indicate possible abuse or neglect; or if they notice something might be wrong that warrants another check-in from a supervisor on your team; if calls are made to CPS or APS)
    • Reinforce and encourage the behavior of employees who follow the plan, including having social support carved out for them so they don’t have to go it alone.

Telehealth provision is already a new skillset for some employees, including teachers, and if they are suddenly without any social support when they used to be able to walk down the hall to the counselor, administrator or psychologist on site, they may freeze and wait when action is important. It’s your job to make the unfamiliar but correct action as easy and supported as possible.

And here’s a notice: Social services haven’t closed down. In Colorado, not only are they still making visits, they are hiring. Hotlines are available and staffed with trained professionals to take your call.

Resources: Read guidance from the Behavior Analysis Certification Board on ethics, safety and more related to Covid-19.

Here’s more on how a few states are monitoring this issue.

Colorado:

Call 1-844-CO-4-KIDS if you suspect abuse or neglect

https://www.coloradocac.org/

For birth to 3 receiving services: http://coloradoofficeofearlychildhood.force.com/eicolorado/EI_QuickLinks?p=Home&s=EI-CO-Response-to-COVID-19&lang=en

Ohio: https://www.cleveland.com/court-justice/2020/03/staying-at-home-amid-the-global-coronavirus-pandemic-creates-new-dangers-for-victims-of-domestic-violence-and-abuse-experts-say.html

And in Texas, use this info:

https://www.allianceforchildren.org/

If you suspect a child is being abused or neglected, please contact the Texas Department of Family and Protective Services toll free at 1-800-252-5400, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

You may also file a report using the secure TDFPS website. Reports made through this website take up to 24 hours to process.

The Texas Abuse Hotline is 1-800-252-5400.

Seeing Snakes and Spiders

27 Friday Sep 2019

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This is the 17th article in a series on Trauma-Informed Behavior Analysis by Dr. Teresa Camille Kolu, Ph.D., BCBA-D.

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What did you do when you saw this picture? Chances are you experienced some additional events beyond just “seeing it”. Did you jump? Experience an increase in your breathing rate? Use some choice verbal behavior? Avert your eyes? (And are you prepared to read on? Fair warning… there’s a snake coming up).

Seeing with fresh eyes

I noticed a couple of things about our culture, and fear responses, this past week.

My young daughter’s love for flap books—the kind where you pull back a piece of paper to reveal something—knows no bounds. So she was instantly drawn to a tattered old library copy (apparently she shares this love with lots of peers) of “Buzz Buzz, Baby”- with poorly rendered babies exploring “bugs”. Around the third page the baby pulls back a web flap to unveil, in the book’s words, “EEK! The itsy bitsy spider!”

Whenever I read the book to her I leave out the “Eek!”.

I think she can come up with that on her own, if she happens to, although chances are she’ll get it from me in a non-mindful moment. (In the 1980’s Cook and Mineka did a classic study in which infant monkeys “acquired” a persistent fear of snakes by watching their scared mothers encounter a snake).

Now that we’ve moved out to the country, we encounter our own “Itsy” (and many for whom that name is woefully inadequate) all the time. (I do recommend this thing called the BugZooka… it does work really well, if you like catch-and-release). Itsy and I go way back, and not necessarily in a good way, although I always appreciate her beauty. But I still want to be warned before you text me her picture, dad.

This summer, one tenacious spider (pictured, top) built a web, over and over, in a windy area outside the kitchen, where we see it numerous times daily. The first few (ok, few hundred) times I nearly jumped out of my skin. When I remembered in time, I was very careful to breathe and compose myself before walking to the sink with my daughter, where I’d point out the spider cheerfully and sing (with all the hand movements) the requisite song. Before long she was signing the song herself. Next I noticed myself no longer jumping when I saw the spider.

THEN… one windy morning Itsy was gone. Gone!

I didn’t breathe a sigh of relief.

I was surprised and curious to feel a strange emotion… like MISSING. I missed her! Was she alright? Would she come back? (She was. She did).

With painful awareness that this is temporary, I often marvel that my daughter’s eyes are not only young… they are unconditioned. They don’t have a lot of pairings with events like scary movies about this deep primate fear, being bitten, or seeing spiders while a parent jumps and screams. They are fresh, curious, hopeful eyes.

Yesterday we chanced upon something rather larger than even the biggest spider. It was this old girl… fat and long, with ring upon ring adorning her useful brown rattle. Depending on my readers, maybe you’ll be happy that instead of grabbing a hoe, I called a guy I read about in my new community’s online forum… apparently this guy LOVES snakes. “ANY snake’s worth my time”, he told me as he jumped in his truck. 35 minutes later he had driven up to our homestead, hooked it and taken it. Now it’s in a quite different rattlesnake heaven than the kind I had sort of planned to send it… blissing out in a protected wilderness area up near Fort Collins, I’m told.

rattler

As he removed our snake into a large vented box and curiously counted the rings (while remarking on how huge it was), the guy’s face was composed; he exuded a strange calm excitement. Normally, the fear response to snakes and spiders is part of our biology. Evolutionary biology has several theories why it’s present even in infancy, and why it might have behooved our ancestral mothers to experience more arousal and get out of there to protect their young in the presence of these critters. I can’t help but wonder what this guy’s history is like. Why does he love something that most of us are scared of?

Kids with traumatic histories

If you’re an educator going back to school, many of your kids are coming in with an avoidance response, or a “get out of there!” escape response, ready to go. Some of them will use these responses in the most annoying ways, dropping all their work on the floor or crawling under desks when you announce the quiz. But some of them have a special background you can’t see. For some, they will use these “fear responses” when they encounter “triggers” that you and I do not think of as scary.

Why is that?

Well, the things that were there when they experienced really bad situations are now “paired”, living together in their past, the same way I smelled an old lady yesterday wearing my own granny’s soap and got emotional thinking about my dear departed loved ones. Or the same way you hear a certain song from your high school dance and think about that year, or that person, or that kiss.

And that’s not all. Psychology explains in anxiety journals why, if you’re a person with an intense “fear” or phobia of spiders, not only do you spot them more quickly and tend to see them where your peers might see other things, like mushrooms or flowers faster in the SAME PICTURE—but to you, they also appear BIGGER.

What can we do about it?

How can we help students show up for their education and get all the learning opportunities they can… even when the school, teachers, and peers accidentally give them “fear related” stimuli all day long? (While psychology explains partly WHY these pairings happen, behavior analysis does too, especially if you read some relational frame theory, learn about respondent conditioning, and take a long-term functional analytic approach. Behavior analysis also goes a long way in helping the helpers undo some of the damage, teaching kids to approach adults and “unpair” adult attention from it’s previously bad parts: if I’m a student who has been through neglect abuse, my teacher coming over to me to praise my “good behavior” might not be a welcome stimulus at first… and my teacher’s praise, as well-intentioned as it may be, might not work).

Cusp Emergence University has been hard at work getting the new online training course ready for educators, and behavior analysts who work in education. We hope to help you to start answering these questions for yourself and your students and teams. On Monday, September 30, our course “Education and Trauma-Informed Behavior Analysis” opens to a 7 day sale (use the code EDTIBA10 for 10 percent off this CEU opportunity). We’re providing BCBA’s and BCBA-D’s with 3.5 continuing education credits, and 3 of those are in ethics.

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